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Make myself real busy today so that I don't feel bored. So around 5pm, I suggested to go out for a ride with our motorbike . So our 1st station is Sarawak Plaza. We park our bike just outside the gate. Happily we went in and round and round. When we came out, we found out that the back tyre is punctured. So dad say he drive round to see if there is any work shop that is still open at this hour. Praise The LORD! there is one shop about to close door. So dad got his bike repaired.

When dad was away, I was left alone near the Sarawak Plaza for about an hour. . It is sort of fun to see people passing by and see the traffic as well. So long I don't have time to see people. I was sitting next to the flower bay near to the pediatrician crossing. I see families (may be they come for holiday) some stop to ask me where to eat . I don't know well that area either! I saw two amoh ladies. one fat and one thin. I just don't understand why they don't use good supporting bra, they look horrible!

As we drive home ,we saw a road side stole sailing durians. We stop by to buy durians. We get 3 for RM 10. We enjoy it so much.

what to do .....

Once the old man ask me, what am I to do when I retired in 2 years time. Well, I just don't understand people sometimes. Why bother what I am doing? Well I woundn't be out of job if I am hardworking. The job is there waiting for me. I wouldn't be out of job.Then why ask me ? how about the old man himself......doing nothing much, the house is not cleaned, the laundry is done very ocasionaly, the floor is moped once in a while. Always make comments about other people . Well ,in this world, the mirror who image on other people is very clear, but the one to themselve is rather blur.

I take out all those to be washed, I washed all that I have to wash.I am tired now. I will do whatever I want to wash again later.

I always asked myself. If only I am a bit younger,I want to do my degree. But now that I am old. It is a bit tough. The other day, when doing my PTK4 assignments, I feel so lost. I don't know where to start. Luckily got DD to help me out. Ha haa...... I discovered one secret. My friend also ask someone else to do his project. So I am not the only one.My friends, at my age, who do degree now , suffers so much. They look so tired and old , may be because of the stress.

Yesterday , got one specialist, came to my CCU. He is a nice Dr to talk to. Actually , he always come to our area. But lately I don't see him much.I ask ,why he seldom come now? He say something else. He ask me ,how young I am . I told him. He said that I am around 50 only. Ha haa......... is he just try to pull my legs?

Sometimes, I used motorbike to go to work. When I used motor bike, I have to put on non

uniform. Then I will change to uniform at work place. They all say that I look nice in my other clothing.

gtg

life is full of..............

I got mood swing this few days. I have wide range of thoughts at a time.Sometimes ,I can be so emotional and I just sat in my office and cry. After that I go to the wards and meet my clients again ---internal and external clients.
Now it is school holidays. It also affect me in the hospital! They follow their parents and relatives to hospital! I hate that. because it is not their place to go!I hate to face the parents or relatives. I would talk to them instead. I will pad their shoulder and talk to them. They are very cooperative most of the time.I will tell them--do you know that this is hospital? Why are you coming here? You all go to school? You learn about the bacteria thingy in school? they will node their head . And then ,I will tell them not to come again next time. And I usually ask them to hold little finger as a promise. It is so cute sometimes. I am fade up with that way---may be will come out with another way next time.
When I come to the office, I feel lonely .I think of the words people used to say----you are so straight forward. You always talk as if you are the winner.You always think that you are great and you are nothing!you think you are clever but you are nuts!These comments keep turning in my mind. And it doesn't go away ! It s sort of hurting me all the time. What a life I am living! your children also left you because you are a bad mother. Am I like what someone says? I am confused. I always thought my children left home for good. But what is the comments at the end of the day ? OMG . God , I leave it to you for good judgement. I am tired!
10 Malaysia plan... We have a part to play as well.2 days ago, we receive a circular on planning on 10 Malaysia plan. And the dead line is 30/11/2009. Malaysia government like to give short notice of doing things.So yesterday ,I have to go to search for information's. Only to find out that the people who are involve, all go on leave! This is Malaysia boleh!Whole day spend my time for nothing much.I try my level best to tell my Nursing sisters to do what have to be done.So their weekend have to be spent on 10 Malaysia plan.
Our right hand side Kuching neighbour come from else where for holiday. At the same time ,they cut the backyard tall grass. I am sort of scared because it looks like a haunted house with the tall grass. And the other day I saw a big rat inside the compound. I hate rats.The neighbour are noisy.
I am harvesting the guava from our back yard. It is as big as the newborn baby's head. It is really rewarding! I like the feeling of harvesting the fruit you grown by yourself.
This weekend I am going to Sarikei ( no more Sarikei home!)to join Ah Han's wedding.I heard that this couple had hard saving for their wedding. They both just come out to work .And they don't earn much. They have to spend so much for their wedding. well, every one gets married. No need to spend a lot on your wedding. cin cai sedikit lah.
Today is public holiday, I am not working. so I get up early to blog.
Last night DD and I talk in the lap top . I am so Happy over it.I have learn a lot of staff from DD. She is never angry over me when I ask stupid questions. DD thank you so much.
I still remember the 1st time DD hold my hand to teach me how to sms.My hands become so stiff with all this little electronic thingy! But I make it . Thank you so much DD.gtg with my laundry and household thingy.

The little piece of paper......

I placed the cheque in the drawer in my room and in my working bag for the past 24 hours or so. Today , I get it photostated and keep a copy for remembrance. That is the biggest money (in cheque) I ever had in my life! This morning , I carry it ( a house) in my pocket to be deposited in the bank. Dad carry me on his motorbike.
I feel sad today. Our house belongs to someone else.
I don't feel I have any effort buying that house, because it is cut through my pay slip.
Our first and very only house in Sarikei!
But Sarikei is not a good place for me!
It brings me bad memories.
I hate the people in Sarikei.
They are funny and the people there are full of jealousy.
Including your own people!
Sarikei is full of funny people!
When you buy a new car , Sarikei people look at you at different angle. They are jealous!
When you do renovation to your house, you can hear a funny sound around you, they are jealous!
When they know that you are better than them , they are unhappy. Actually , they are jealous!
Including your own people and relatives!
When your children get good results in school, they are jealous!
What else again about SARIKEI.
Bye bye SARIKEI
I love you but I don't like the people there.

Memories........

we have sold our house in Sarikei! I was telling DD the house in exchange of the little piece of cheque! I mean a little piece of paper.Dad say , feel a bit sad ! I look it at a different angle. since we cannot take care of it well , then might as well get another owner to look after it well. Thank you God for choosing another good owner for our house.
Last of the last....
we 2 drive to Sarikei home for the last time.
we 2 sleep there for the last round.
we 2 see the house from inside for the last round.
we 2 packed and see all the things inside for the last round.
Dad bring in the last thing to our car.
we 2 lock the gate for the last round.
I can see dad feel uneasy .
but I am a bit stronger in that sence.
the house keys were handed over to the new owner.
bye bye , former house.

Real busy week......

Year end fever for the managers

Piles of works waiting for us after my leave from KL.The year end appraisals---ACR(annual confidential reports )for all my staff, the date line reports, the minutes etc. so much work to do.I really have to work so hard to finish all that. Well ,I have finished all that. And I can relax a bit after this.Yesterday , when Angela rang me whether to have a holiday in Singapore, I straight away agree. I want to go for a break out of my work place. Ha .....ha...... happy to have my Xmas oversea for 2009!

Never take things for granted

my 2 days leave

It is such a lesson to learn in this 2 days. I am staying with my friends daughter place. she is graduated with civil engineering. Her mum told me that, when she just graduated, she worked for a Malay boss. She promised to pay her RM 2.5 k per month. When coming to payment, she pay her only RM 6-700 per month. she worked for her for about 6 mouths. I also don't know why she continued to work without money. May be because she is a native. We are different people. Her father is a doctor, I am very show he knew what is best for her daughter

Don't take things for granted..

My friends are very blunt with her children. When we are inside the car, she bought a new car --RUSH, for her daughter.She told me is her first time in this new car.Her girl didn't put on her seat belt. She says to her daughter-- better use your seat belt, you don't bring trouble to me. I feel sort of hurt from her words. I am very sure this is how her girl feel.

My friend is very nagging. One night when her daughter come back from work. She nags so much , that I also feel that she is too much. She keeps going to her girl's room while she is sleeping. she will ask her to eat , to bath and many more. I feel bored. I am very sure this is how her girl feels.I always think to myself. If the children are not with us, are they the same? then leave them alone so that they grow at their own pace.If you keep telling them, they are bored with you. And they might hate you.I noticed that her daughter sometimes, node their head instead of talking. I think sure they feel bored .

Lie for good

So when my girl want to meet me, I have to make up story.Because I always tell my friends that my girl is in Ipoh. Or else if I say my girl in KL, and I want to stay with her, I feel shy. That is why I lie to her that my girl come to KL for a course. This is to ease my shy.

As a mother ,we have to lie many times to make things look OK to people.This is life.

LOL...........

PTK4
Went for my PTK4 on 1-4/11/2009. It has been so stressful for us. We have to do public speaking in Bahasa Malayu. We have to do group work and we have to present the group work at a very short preparation time. Our programme stretched up to 11 or 12 midnight. It was such a stressful thing! And today, we have 3 hours written examination. OMG...........it is an open book exam! 1st time in my live that we are doing open book exam!
Everybody is so tensed up yesterday ! That is the day before exam. Everybody read and work so hard for the exam. But for me, I was so sleepy when facing any books. OMG! I am worried or what am I to do? I think to myself, if I stressed out so much to study, I wouldn't get anything also. So I prefer to hold back.I don't want to study at all. I left everything to GOD.So I go here and there to see what others are doing. When I go to the Photostat room, I saw so many people Photostatting a lot of everything. So I look around and photostat what the others are Photostatting.I gain knowledge in that way! or else I will feel so sleepy. The others all laugh at me being spy of what others are doing. Actually I am so sleepy.So last night, more exciting! Everybody on their lap top to put in whatever thing they feel important for them.But I still can't do anything!I thought whatever I know,

I will known already, what I don't know I wouldn't know just by reading at the last moment.So I go to sleep early. My roommate ask me... you always sleep early. Yes I say, I always do. I can sleep very well last night.I had a funny dream.I dream that as if i am going for Chin Ming festival.I saw my grandma in my dream . She looked healthy in my dream.
Come this early morning. I looked around and see how are people behaving.Interesting!so many people bring lap top........ful of burga..itu memang Malaysia boleh!I noticed one lady bringing a big bag of books using the traveling bag.
When the exam paper was distributed down, well ,all the questions were from every day work life procedures! I can do them without much difficulty.How much the books are used, I am feeling very doubtful.Now I know what open book exam means. You have no time to open your books. it is just a act . I really laugh out loud. This is life.