friends......

who are they?
we all need friends in this world . we never deny that
that is part of us-- part of living , part of everyday life. and on and on....
we cannot live without friends
but funny enough , friends come and go
that s my experience in life about friends
some are soul friends
some are funny friends
some are crazy
some are mad
some only when they need you.
a friend in need is a friend indeed.
how many friends are friends in need ?
ask myself .....
none
this moment friend
next moment -- enemy
that's why friend and enemy must go together !
when i was young
my friends treat me no better
when i grow older
i know life better
friends are friends
we rarely have a friend in need
they always leave you when you are in trouble
they are so scared of you !
even your relatives -- so scared of you when you need help
so friends are friends la
we better be our own self la
work hard
earn lots of money
good to yourself
be a friend in need to yourself always
act moderate
friends moderate

mixed feeling --2011

promotion thingy

praise the lord that I am promoted again

last promotion was on 23/9/2007

to the post of U36 matron post

so now I am promoted to U42 -- matron post but of different grade.

am happy one thing and unhappy on the other hand.

i will be transferred to another hospital !

there are 2 other assistant medical officers who are also promoted

our boss -Dr Sim helps them to appeal

I also told Dr Sim about my promotion thing .

he also help me to SMS my state matron

so i don't know what will be the outcome

pray for me that I don't need the transfer thing !

friends come and go

my two younger girls are facing friends leaving them

well, we have experienced lots of that things in life

we gone through that many many times in life !

friends are meant to be like that !

i have got so many friends leaving us every now and then

now when I think back

God has it's own way to guide us

the friends that leave me -- to me were leaving me for good

I don't need that type of friends in life

some friends -- take advantage of you

some -- make use of you

some --for a purpose

some -- jealous

some--get some news from you to tell other people

the list go on ....

there are very few genuine friends in this world

when they feel that you are nomore useful

they leave you!

we very seldom have really good friends in life

think it this way

in life

even someone left their dearest parents

what more to say friends !

life is as such . feel sad for a while and get out from it !

tomorrow is always a better day .