living in a grateful world

be grateful to those who have hurt or harmed you
for they have reinforced your determination
be grateful to those who have deceived you
for they have deepened your insight
be grateful to those who have hit you
for they have reduced your karmic obstacles
be grateful to those who have abandoned you
for they have taught you to be independent
be grateful to those who have made you stumble
for they have strengthened your ability
be grateful to those who have denounced you
for they have increase your wisdom and concentration.

laugh......

ha ha . we all have a good laugh today

jantung-- the dr ask

the nurse answered

apa jantung - this is a surgical ward



ooo it a patient by the name of jantung

in that surgical ward !



malaysia is a multi racial country

so many dialects as well



so there are so many interesting stories as well

what is your name?

Noname

cibai

jambang

libiaminora

penis ..........



ha ha ha .. what a name .
GOK !

give n take

what is give???
something you give to people
something you offer to people
something you share with people
something you think for people
something you do for people
something...
something.........

take
ambil

but if you know only how to take people 's thing
and don't know how to give
i think that someone is very selfish !
this world is full of funny people
they are so happy to take peoples things
but they never know how to share !

bosssssssssssssssssss

i ve this dynamic head
she can change her plan as time goes by
she can tell you things in a different manner , different all together !
the 1st time
the 2nd time
the 3rd time
the 4th --may be same as either the 1st or the 2nd or the 3rd or combine a bit here and there !
this makes the follower a little headache
but she don't mind if you didn't follow exactly what she says
after all what she say is difficult to follow sometimes !
i think she herself also confuse what she says !
but as long as you do , she s happy !
i like her and she likes me as well
because I do the thing , sometimes my way
then she will say
that's why I say like that lo
'is me who start it ba'
i m that one who did this before
we are quite used to her style
and we very often leave her alone
she s quite harmless !
sometimes i pity her so much
she always sleep late , work long hours
and her result might not be that rewarding
but she is quite happy if you do something

dad says-- the captain is shaky , the followers more shaky
may be it is true !
ha ha , that s different life all together !

saturday.....

we planed to cook prawn mee for Suk Ye , Rita and Ping
while still in the cooking
my boss ring
she wants me to go to work for some discussion
well , i eat and go to hospital around 1145am
we chat and planed out for the decontamination of the fungal thingy
which has been with us for so long
we planed to evacuate one area after the other
to give way for the thorough cleaning
so Monday , we will be in full action.
hope everything goes on smoothly.

yet ...........to find out.

unsolved ????

the problem of human relationship has hunted me for the past month or so

i went to cardiac clinic

i see that it is time to act

i call the 2 staff who had conflict, to a room

another one to be the witness

so 4 of us are in the room

i start out the rolling ball

nurse A ( a bad nurse)

wherever she work , she create trouble

nurse B - a good nurse ( a devoted christian )

i really don't know why they have conflict

they don't talk to each other for sometime already

my intention today is to make them to apologise to each other and become friends again

at one stage --these 2 talking as if want to have something rocky

they blame each other of some small matter

nurse A is really stubborn

i look into her face - OMG--no wander she don't get married !

she s a fierce face !

she sort of blaming everything !

she refuse to listen to advice

at one stage - she says that she do not like her friend to be called to do work when they are having their drink

i ask her if her friend- that one being called get angry ? she say - no

then why she has to get angry for them ?

i m so doubtful

we all speak for our own self only

no need to speak for your friends

they know how to speak for them self

nurse B ask for forgiveness from nurse A

after the long commotion

i call more people to come

all in all -- 8 of us are there !

I make them hold hands

at the end - they hug each other

all of them cry in the room

they all hug together -- including me

i told them to promise not to be angry and unhappy with each other

we are all fated to be together - that's why we are colleagues

i told them -it is Gods will that we are together to make friend and not to make enemies !

why fight ? why sarcastic with one another ?

life is short

value each and every minute when we are together

why make people hate you

life is really short

stay harmoniously together !

then n then

Happy birthday

4/11/2010 is Ah Ping 's 20 th birthday
Suk and me decided to celebrate her birthday in our house
we go to sunday market early to buy chicken
Suk buy 4 chickens and i buy 2
suk say she don't know how to slaughter the chicks
so i say i do the slaughtering and she do the others
so we slaughter 2 by 2 by 2
the 1st 2-- one -suk bring home to cook for lunch
2nd one -- cook in our place for making mee sua
we boil some eggs
suk buy a cake
thats how Ah Ping 's birthday is celebrated.
Ping very happy about the whole idea
her message to me
thanks for today!
thanks for the chicken
thanks for the mee sua ,
thanks for the cake
thanks for the lunch +dinner
thanks for the celebration !!
thanks for everything!!
I m very happy!
i feel grateful and xin fu to have you guls
* heart U!

weird weird n weird

2/11/2010 is old soul 's day for the Christian
my colleage Anna took a day off to pay respect to her late husband
when she came back to work the next day
she talk weird -- people keep asking where she go, their husband never die !!!
OMG! what type of communication skill ?

Mum ask -- is he no more ?

this 14 years old big boy-- really big
told his mum- who's a nursing sister in a policlinic
that he was called by a school teacher to do some work at school
but instead, he drive a motorbike with a friend going some where else
and involved in a fatal accident
he was admitted to the ICU for 2 0r 3 days
and he passed away
it was a friday (5/11/2010)
around 240pm when he passed away
i happen to be there
and i go to console the mum
i was quite shock
when the mum go and ask the doctor-- no more kah?
and she say - today is friday
they want to bury him today
so that he will have less sufferings
she quick quick ask the nurses to undo all the tubes from his body
EVEN DIED- THE MUM STILL WANT THE BEST FOR HIM !

if someone hate or don't like you at all......

I have a crazy colleague
everywhere she works
sure people don't like her one
she s not good to people
she s not helpful
she s calculative
she doesn't like to help people
she s always by herself
she tells me that people are not to her par
she don't greet , smile to certain people only
even the cardiologists don't like her one
she act high
she thought that she s the highest of all mankind


OMG !I have a big headache with her around !
she inflict verbal abuse to people .

when someone tell me that they hate or don't like some one
now I know exactly how they feel
they will get away from you , avoid you . hate you deep inside
they don't like to go with you
they try to leave you alone
they don't enjoy your presence

they ..........
if I were that person
i will image myself and live my own life ......

life lately...

Datuk Sri Yao Ping Hua 's death
he has been my patient on and off since last year.
he is a nice man and he likes to talk and shares a lot of things with me
in September 2010, he was diagnosed as hepatoma.
he was very depressed that time
i talked to him just to ease him out
and it did
he started to smile as he share his story with me
i told him , if he smile , i don't see any sickness in him
he told me he has 2 missions to accomplish.
1. to finish writing his biography
2. to celebrate and take a family photo for his 70th wedding ceremony in 2 years time with all his grand and great grand children -- from all over the world !

as he talk , i can see that he s so happy waiting for the day to come. i feel so happy for him as well !
may be more than 30 days has passed.
he is readmitted !
he is so sick-- i couldn't believe it
i go near him and say-- Matron Ngu come to see you lo
his sound was very soft - i hardly can hear him !
he was with us for a week or so
he become so critically ill and the family decided to bring him home on Sunday at 8 pm
and he passed away on Monday at 340pm !
5 matrons with our Pengarah- dr Rahim went to pay our last respect to him
he looked so peaceful !
but his wife is so sad !
keep crying.
she tells me -- that she s very lucky that God had chosen him for her !

in life , we cannot be too calculative !
we must think of other people .
we must not bring hardship to other people.
we must be very caring and love others just like you love your parents
we must love our seedblings as if you love yourself
we not only love our husband or in laws
we must love others as well
we must not cause unhappiness to other people

life is short
life must be made enjoyable at all time