past few days events

hell of sufferings for the past week

after the fall on the 6/12/2009

my backache getting worst

I hardly can pick up a thing from the floor

get up from bed is also such a task

i went to see the physiotherapist 2 times already

i went to the Chinese Sen sia yesterday

the pastier pray for me.

praise the LORD

i am much better today

Thank you GOD

I am much better

pampered myself today.

I have my backache 4 a week already

but I still can help myself

yesterday is really terrible

I can hardly get up from my chair

I have to hold on something to get up

It really hurts

I get myself to the physiotherapy department

I told them that I really need help

She give me some pain relieve

That's to say she give me a course of heat treatment

than next week she will give me some definite treatment

last night it still hurts a lot

I get up and it is still no better

So this morning,I cant even bend myself

so today ,I have a rest ---that's no work for me today

ha ha ,today can eat and can notwork.....

thinking hard....

dad was saying why the Tang family not so smart.

i keep quite

why the ngu family not so smart either! i continue to keep quite.

the elder sister of the newly wed is very fat !

the body shape worse than the mother

the mother hired a nice cloth from the shop and she look nicer than her daughter

the daughter look as if she had a few children

i don't know why?

well everyone up there

eat to live and not live to eat.....

always remember that

they all eat like hell.....

as if been starfing

but why eat so much to make you look ugly....

girls, make yourself presentable and nice..

you are meant to do that in life,

don't over eat to make yourself look ugly

always remember, EAT TO LIVE AND NOT LIVE TO EAT....

6/12/2009

Another 12 days, we are going to Singapore--yaahooooooo!

wedding day for my niece , who had Stephen Johnson Disease when she was in form 4

her face was a bit dis- figured ,but still look OK

the bridegroom come as early as 730am

as usual, there s the row of men and ladies

making fun or make wedding an interesting moment to be remembered

they make jokes, play games, make people laugh and giggle

one of the games they play is

hiding the gate key inside a piece of frozen ice and to obtain the key to open the gate

the process left a pool of water outside the gate floor

mu mu go out to put a piece of cloth onto the bridegrooms car

the car happened to be my boss Mez--KH1010!

what a coincidence!

but she can't open the security door

so i go out to help

as i step out to the gate, i lost balance

i had a heavy fall onto my own body

my beloved camera hit onto the floor fairly hard and can't be used anymore!

my body is so painful till this morning


while i had my fall, some other events happen silmotaneously

the bride bouquet of flower dropped onto the floor


the toilet door had lock someone from inside and can't be opened

hmmmmmmm

that's the day!

feel bored...

wake up early this morning

do the household chaos

on line , check face book and read blogs

feel rather bored

small dizziling outside

think of so many things in life

what is life after all?

met a patient, an old man-- 84 yrs old

he knew paternal grandpa, also a teacher last time

he had 9 children --3 man and 6 women

same as mine.

but his children are many over seas

4 girls and 2 boys over seas

4 girls all in US

1 boy in Taiwan and another in Aussie --Melbourne

but he is sick in hospital

i don't see any of his own children come to see him

only a nephew come to see him

he had US PR

but he told me they had try so hard ,wanting to stay in US,

but his other partner can't stand the coldness oversea

sad stories

now they stay with his unmarried girl at home

life is tough and life is uncertain

but that s life

they are old

but whenever i talked to him , he sigh.

i am very sure he has a lot s of unhappiness un reveal

feel sorry for him.

but that's is life

i know that family fairly well

i know the younger generations has many young deaths

but the old are really old

that's life

my Sarikei trips..

13/9/2009
went home to see lawyer to sale our home sweet home

see home feel very unhappy

grass grow till the drain to the balcony and to the door of the kitchen

the grass were very healthy

cut grass and clean and mop to make it look cleaner

14/9/2009---go to sign sale agreement

home to Kuching on 14/9/2009 night


take annual leave on 20/11/2009 and to Sarikei on the same day

straight to sign electricity meter transfer form and the water meter to the new owner

21/11/2009, go to lawyer there to get the cheque and hand over the house keys to the lawyer

come back the same day


29/11/2009-- back to Sarikei to attend Ah Han 's wedding

walk over to see the house---it belongs to other people!

but I still peep from outside!

feel a bit sad

but I don't want to stay long there.

I stay in hotel in Sarikei for the first time in my life!

our house belongs to other people!

Han's wedding day.

30/11/2009-------is Ah Han's big day in Sarikei.

I went to Sarikei on 29/11/2009 by 830 am bus. I met a friend ( Mary Goh) from Sarikei in wet market that morning , telling me that the bus are mostly full cause of the Hari Raya Qurban/ Aidil Adha holiday following the week ends. So I rush to the bus station and book the ticket. Truly it is rather full. I manage to get a seat.

The weather is fine. I reached Sarikei around 230pm. Than my brother came to fetch me from the bus station. When I reached my brother's home, I met his wife . She is busy going out to buy something for the son's wedding. I was left alone with Chiew Huong. I go to her room and talk to her. She show me 3 blouses brought back by Kerk . There were presents from eldest sister to her.I ask if she can wear them. She seem quite happy over it and she put on for me to see. Boleh tahan. After that we have a good chat over everyday life. She shared with me how she was ill treated by her sister -in -law. Well I council her a bit intending to calm her down.

I keep thinking to myself. Why is life difficult for her. May be she 's also at fault.She is not lovely at all. She talk in a very rough manner. She make faces as she speak. I just don't understand!

4th and 5th sisters come around 6pm. We have a buffet dinner at their house that night with all the guests from both families. Ah Han wife relatives and our relatives. The relatives were from all over the places. Some from Miri, Lawas, Sibu, Bintulu, Johor Bahru, KL and so forth .We eat ,chat and we stay in their house till late. Than we left for the hotel. The next morning, we left hotel early to my brother house.

Very interesting. When we go and fetch the bride, they were many procedures. They were many jokes and fun.

We reach the church at 10 am sharp. we all stay there for the church ceremony till nearly 12 mid day. Then Ah Han aunt from JB cooked nice dishes for all of us.

At night , we have our dinner in the restaurant. All together ,we have 20 tables . Very grand one. Beautiful day to be remembered.