Friday, December 26, 2008
sharing..
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Thinking back..
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Merry Xmas and Happy New Year
Thursday, December 18, 2008
OMG...
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
No arms ,no legs, no worries....
Saturday, December 13, 2008
MVDoulos has changed...
So called friend...
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Going 4 better..
Monday, December 8, 2008
DD cut my hair.....
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Sarikei trip---3/12 to 6/12
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
breakfast with DD.
Staying at home....
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Malaysia Boleh....
Saturday, November 29, 2008
soft skills......
I am very good to people. A lot of people come to me for moral support.I am always by their side. They all know about it.And I also very helpful to people as well.
yesterday been a hard day. Go for dialogue session. 830 am till 1130am. I am over hanger . When I eat , I have epigastric pain for the whole day.Remember , you all up there, never over starve yourself. Actually ,I can't go out from the hall.
Friday, November 28, 2008
Wedding dinner..
I felt so bad yesterday.Early morning I opened the gate and knocked some one's Hulux outside our gate. I thought the Hulux is far enough for me to open the gate! OMG ,luckily I am in time to close the gate on time before a bad knock.
I went to the dinner venue around 615pm. We walked around the shopping lots around that area. Actually it is quite nice place to shop.
The dinner consisted of the following dishes,
1.prawn salad combinations
2.sharks' fin soup with dried seafood
3.braised trotter with bun
4.steamed tilapia with soya sauce
5.stewed duck with sea cucumber
6.prawn ball & fresh scallops with vegetables
7.'tangui' chicken
8.mixed fruits platter
The names are so beautiful, but the food is not so nice.Yesterday is a good day for marriage. I saw so many couples. the restaurants are so full.gtg
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Life....
True Stories..
Bangau oh bangau..
Bangau oh bangau kenapa engkau kurus?
Macam mana aku tak kurus ikan tidak timbul
Ikan oh ikan kenapa engkau tak timbul?
Macam mana aku tak timbul rumput panjang sangat
Rumput oh rumput mengapa panjang sangat?
Macam mana aku tak panjang kerbau tak makan aku
kerbau oh kerbau kenapa tak makan aku?
Macam mana aku tak makan perut aku sakit
Perut oh perut kenapa engkau sakit?
Macam mana aku tak sakit makan nasi mentah.
Nasi oh nasi mengapa engkau mentah?
Macam mana aku tak mentah kayu api basah.
Kayu oh kayu kenapa engkau basah?
Macam mana aku tak basah hujan timpa aku
Hujan oh hujan kenapa engkau turun?
Macam mana aku tak turun katak panggil aku
Katak oh katak kenapa engkau panggil hujan?
Macam mana aku tak panggil hujan ular nak makan aku
Ular oh ular kenapa nak makan katak?
Macam mana aku tak makan memang makanan aku
The story goes on and on...
one blaming each other.
The moral of the story is don't blame people
Look at yourself first before you talk about other people
If you point one finger to people
3 bounce back to you, yourself.
I want all of you to learn this story and remember all the time.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
N.U.T.S.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Life ahead...
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Learning hokien....
I still remembered how I learned how to speak other languages when I first go out to work.I brought a note book and tried to write each word I learned in the note book . than I start to practise what I have learned. We then try to speak in a sen tenses.Practise make one perfect.We all laugh and have fun together.That is how we learn together.It is real fun.we really enjoy it.That was our training time. Now I can speak many languages.----Chinese, Mandarin,Foochow, Hokien, Malay,Iban,and a few words of many other dialects.Praise the Load.
people 's own life...
KKM--kementerain kuat mesuyuarat
Our mentality is as such. This is what we are. Meeting whole day long, the end result is a bit only.We love that type of life.Worst still, someone love to go for all type of courses, always away from work place. No need to work. The work leave to the others to do.If someone ask, why this thing not done---easy to answer... I am away.... I am not around during that time. I read the early newspaper, the University of Malaya (M U) was grated even lower than Thailand, Indonesia, Philippines Univercities. Quite shameful actually. Last time ,if someone graduated from MU, the family will be so proud. Because, MU was world grated within 100 universities.But now we are within 500 only! OMG... And yet the principal have so many excuses ...Shame...Shame...
DD---hairdresser soon...
DD went for her first barbar class yesterday.She quite enjoy it. But she say, very tired.She bought her own scissors, doll with hair and she start her lesson yesterday. I really hope she will enjoy the course. If not for anything, but at least she knows how to take care of her own hair. That is the gese of it. The whole course is only 1k plus. And she will be certified a certificate! I love that! Next time she can cut me and daddy's hair.
New colleage..
A new friend joined us yesterday. They are different people. She just trasfered to KL last year. Now she come back. The 'skin ' people are different. May be they come back for something! The high post are waiting for them! They don't have to be smart to become big boss. That is our country!
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Pretending....
There is someone who can pretend so well.In front of you, she can be somebody great, but actually , she is someone real bad.I come across one colleague,when she see the superior coming, she pretend to work hard.But actually she is NUTS.I hate this type of people.The other day ,this lady come to me,telling me many things about herselve. I don't
Saturday, November 15, 2008
making "kiaw"
I want jia to go for scanning again .See if the polyp is bigger or not. Haven't talk to her yet.
gtg
Friday, November 14, 2008
counselling...
I cried after listening to her story. Last time I didn't go to elsewhere to work cos I think of my children. If I go maybe my children like that....
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Interesting news....
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Everyday life.....
10/11/2008 is dad 's clinic apt date. I forgot about it because may be I was too busy lately and also I am getting old. Actually I wrote the date on the board at work place. Everyday I see but I didn't pay attention. So near yet so far. Ha.....
So tell him to fast overnight for blood taking of fasting lipid profile, blood sugar, BUSE, FBS, serum creatinine. He grumble so much last night. ....no need to take medication.... don't want to see Dr. blah blah.....What is for me? nothing. Do everything for him , only forget once and he grumble so much. That is this man.
But anyway ,I see that a man like that will always live long life. Because he only say, say, but deep inside him ,he really take care of himselve.I will bring him to see Dr tomorrow.
The 2 balls....
He used to forgot something. Even he will forgot to take out the key from the car. I have to send the key to Bintangor one time for his locked car! If the 2 balls were not attached, there would get loss in space!
The pension card..
One day I ask him ,where is his pension card? That is important, because that is his identification after pension. He searched everywhere for it. Hai ya.....
over grown....
My colleague keep asking me, why I can stay slim and firmed.I told them not to eat so much of the carbohydrate food. They told me that they can't stand being hungry. Well ,we don't have to starve. Just eat the usual way but less carbohydrate intake. Eat more vegetables and fruits.But don't take a lot of rich tip bids.We eat to live and not live to eat. That is to say, we eat just enough to keep life going. No need to eat extra. The extra you eat is going to become the fat in your body. At the end of the day, your heart can't stand the extra load. That is why heart problem sets in. Always remember....EAT TO LIVE AND NOT LIVE TO EAT. keep your body shape for ever fit and healthy.
Monday, November 10, 2008
unusual things...
Have meeting this afternoon. It says those staff who are for special award must have good characteristic of good rapport, must know how to do certain things.One part amuse me.... You must know how to pick up rubbish from the floor. Or my gosh, this is part of everyday life. what are we ,Malaysian? Quite shameful man.
Lie....
I already say earlier, people who lie get lots of thing in life. People can recommend themselves for some form of award quietly, and tell others that they are clever people. But actually they know NUTS.Malaysians are like that. That is why I hate people like that. But whatever it is, I earn my living to feed my members at home.They are my dearest people.Our specialist one day tell me, when you get sick, your family are the one with you. I tell him that it is true.
Feel really touched...
Money not enough --- 2 .
Everybody must see.. It is such a sad and real story.I think it is happening everywhere and everyday.You all see for yourself. I drop tears many times.When you all are small, the old forks look after you all so passionately. When they grow old, you know how the story goes.
DD had seen the story. She want me to see.We must learn something from there.
We went to 100% store yesterday. Buy quite a lot of things.Everything increase price. I am very careful in choosing what to buy. Don't know what will be out the shelf tomorrow. I always remind myself,how much poisons have we take?
Friday, November 7, 2008
Happy hour....
Today is Friday.Long lunch hour. work from 8am to 11:50am then start work at 2:15 to 5pm. Work only 6 .5 hours today.After the routine work,I stay in the office. Do some returns and some reports.Then the cleaner woman come to give me some rambutan fruits.I use to be very good to them. I always give them some food to eat. Give them little gifts. That's why they are good to me also. Whenever I ask them to do something, they will come straight away. One day, I feel ill.They massage for me.People always say,a friend in need is a friend indeed. I also always make friend with low income group of people.Imagine , without a cleaner or a sweeper, what will it be like? We are all important people in the organisation.Be it Dr, nurse, or a cleaner.We are in the team.Our objective in life, is to earn money home to feed the family
Something nice....
whatever your pain,
there will always be sunshine,
after the rain....
Perhaps you may stumble,
perhaps even fall,
But God's always ready,
To answer your call.....
He knows every heartache,
sees every tear,
A word from His lips,
can calm every fear....
Your sorrows may linger,
throughout the night,
But suddenly vanish,
in dawn's early light......
The Savior is waiting,
somewhere above,
To give you His grace,
and send you His love...
whatever your cross,
whatever your pain,
'God always sends rainbows....
after the rain....'
Only we can be us and only you, you.
No one can think,
breathe,
feel,
see
experience
love or
die
for anyone of us
Inside we are what we are.
We all come into life
without a map,
an operating manual, or
a definition of ourselves,
other than male or female.
It is up to us to discover
who we are and who we can be.
Life treats you as you treat life.
----Mark Victor Hanser et al
The 10 commandments of success:-
1. speak to people
There is nothing as nice as a cheerful greeting.
2.Smile
It takes 72 muscles to frown, and only 14 to smile
3.Call people by name
Everyone is pleased when you remember their names.
4.Be friendly and helpful, and other will respond in like manners.
5.Speak and act.
as if everything you do were a genuine pleasure.
6.Be genuinely..........
interested in people.
7.Be generous...... with praise ;
cautious with criticism.
8.Be considerate.
with the feelings of others,it will be appreciated.
9.Be thoughtful.
of the opinions of others.
There are 3 sides to any contraversy.....
yours, the other persons and the right one
10.Be willing....
to give service,what counts most in life is what you do for others.
Remerber that when you are kind to another person,
both that person's life and yours are enriched.
The seven wonders of the world.
1. to touch
2.to taste
3.to see
4.tohear
5.to run
6.to laugh &
7.to love
Eight gifts that do not cost a cent.
1. The gift of listening
But you must really listen.No interrupting, no day dreaming,
no planing your response.JUST LISTENING.
2. The gift of affection.
Be generous with appropriate hugs,kisses,pats on the back and holds.
Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
3. The gift of laughter.
Clip cartoons...share articles, and funny stories. Your gift will say
"I love to laugh with you"
4. The gift of a written note.
It can be a simple " Thanks for the help"note or a full sonnet.
A brief hand written note may be remembered for a lifetime and may even change a life.
5. The gift of a compliment.
A simple and sincere " You look great in red"," you did a supper job, " That was a wonderful
meal" can make someone's day.
6. The gift of a favor.
Everyday go out of your way to do something kind.
7. the gift of solitude.
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone.Be sensitive to those
times and give the gift of solitude to others.
8. The gift of a cheerful disposition.
The easiest way to feel good is to extent a kind word to someone. Really it is not that hard to say.....Hello or Thank you.
Thursday, November 6, 2008
A lot to learn...
Read through my own blog. I find a lot of spelling mistakes. Am I growing old? Forgetting so many words? My gosh! I must try harder.When I want to write something, suddenly I cant spell out the exact word that I want. My mind is so blank when I think hard. woh loa......scary to grow old.A friend of mine, once said that she is scared to grow old. Now I know exactly what she meant.But I have tried very hard not to behave old. I go with young people and I talk to them.I behave like one of them....Ha ... GOK...what it is all about.
lend my shoulder...
One day ,a junior Dr felt so down. I called her to a corner and counseling her. She cried. After she cried ,she felt better.Today ,I go to follow Dr. round. There is another junior Dr feel like crying.I can see from her face.I told her to stay calm. And I give her some advice.I hope that she will be OK.
Hand washing ...
Is it so hard to wash your two hands? I go round to see if people wash their two hands. I keep washing my hands hoping the other will follow. But in vain. I still have to whisper into people s ears reminding them to wash hands. Even with our enforcement of collecting RM 1 for not washing hands, they still don't follow.I have even collected money from one of the Dr for not washing hands. It seems they don't bother much. Last week, I asked one of our specialist why he didn't wash his hands. He said, if I am around, then he wash,if not he will skip hand washing. My GOD.... life is tough. As if wash hands for me..
Do no harm...
If you don't know how and what to do ....ask and ask.. do no harm to mankind.And also do no harm to yourself. Don't drink until mabok, each time you harm yourself, there is always a damage done to yourself
Facts of life...
Colleague of mine like to bluff and to tell lies. The European will tell 3000 lies to their children in their life time.E.g.... the Santa Claus don't give presents to bad gals...etc...
Is it good to tell lies? GOK....That lady in our organisation even use people s project to become hers for her master program! And she has a master degree!----cut and paste lah of course!
At work, people s projects will become hers. She always say I do this and I do that. But she do NUTS---- Ha.... IE not up to standards.
The pharmacy colleague of mine has done a project. She ask for it and claim that it is her project.
I ask my colleague ....why you give her? She say ,never mind lah... my gosh!
So many pieces of work are done by us. She will tell our director that it was done by her.But now we know that a lot of people don't trust her. It is only a matter of time. GOD will reveal everything. That s Malaysia boleh! Now that she want to do PhD..... copy who ? don't know...
Is life good like that? The other day ,my friend tell me.There is the neighbour of hers, together with her grandson, steal her backyard rambutan fruits. Oh ..my gosh... that is the teaching..
So you know lah, what is best to do...
cry,,, cry,,, cry,,
when someone want to correct your mistakes, you should be very grateful to say thank you! but this stupid girl know how to cry only. I hate people crying.... hate so very much.
My children ,when cry,I will ask them to stop crying. If not, I will beat them further. So my children all know that, if they have to cry, they will cover their mouth with a pillow or a piece of cloth or towel and cry behind the door.
stubborn.......
I also hate people who are stubborn.. Tell her once.. still repeat the same mistakes... hate... so much
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Many lessons learned....
Past few days the lines is not good. We cannot get connected. Today only they found out that the modem is at fault. They have changed to a new one. yahoo... blog again..
Professor talk on ...change--we need; change.. we must...
Yesterday, our prof. talk on --- we must change...
With our mentality, I am quite doubtful if we can make it. People are complacent , refuse changes--- prefer to stay in the cocoon.Anyway it is very encouraging talk.
Collecting wet clothing..
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Day before yesterday, when I went home from work,I noticed our bachelor neighbour collect clothing in the rain. I smiled to myself. There was a story behind it. Years ago, when DD was still in primary 2. One day, I was working 8-4:15pm. I dried our clothing outside the veranda before I went to work. The sun was so good and the clothing were all dry. There came the rain just before the office hour was over. When I reached home, the clothing were still on the lines. I got very angry, and scolded everybody at home. Then DD went and collected the wet cloths and quietly she put them in a pail. She didn't say a word. But I saw all what she did.
I keep quiet after that.But still pull long face. She is so smart---- has her own philosophy. She came to me when I was less angry. She said, mom ..... took it as if we were all not at home. I felt so bad when I heard what she had said to me. Her mind can be so opened. Why mine is so narrow? After that when the cloths are wet I never want to say anything. Let it be... let it be...
I learn a great lesson from her. What for want to get angry anyhow? Life is like that.
A lesson learned from Nong....
dad and me always quarrel over dad s saham.
Nong said one day to me ..mom.. you get married to dad, is your own choice. No need to quarrel everyday. May be this is true.
From jia and BB
When they were in form one and form three, one day they told me.. mom you always say that we are stupid, then we become stupid.. then we are stupid.True also, we must be able to encourage them instead of condemning. I learned many lessons from my juniors. that is life.gtg
Monday, November 3, 2008
Memories.......
Yesterday I join the church dancing class, nothing is free in this world, but this one is free. I call it aerobics because I don't know how to dance. I just want to sweat myself .We dance for nearly 2 hours. That is enough for me.Actually it is quite nice.
Sunday market..
Went to Sunday market and buy a lime tree . we plant a lime tree near the guava tree. It already got fruit on its tree. Lately we always make lime juice to drink. It is soothing to drink on a hot day when it is drank icy cold. I love it. So kids when next time, when I cant move, you know what I want. But if you offer me everyday, I died also lah! gtg
Friday, October 31, 2008
Recalling.....
Real stories...
Went to attend a talk this morning.Ha..... ha..... you know what I have learned?
In Penang Hospital, there is one patient (pt.) who suffer from diabetes. that is ----kencing manis.
Because is "sweet urine" the patient drink 5--6 litres of water per day. He think by drinking a lot of water, he can dilute the sweetness in the urine.He was admitted in the Trauma and emergency department for overloading of fluid intake, causing APO....acute pulmonary oedema.
That is why ,don't become your own doctor!
Pain chart..
once my friend say. hey so and so.. put a pain chart for patient so and so.
She heard only "pachat".. leaping in BM. Hey where..... she look around for a leaping patient. ha.. ha...
Wrong leg..
once my pt. has a broken left ankle. The doctor put POP....plaster of Paris on her right leg.
The next day,we were to ambulate the pt.---nenek... angkat dan cuba jalan.The lady try to walk but she cant..... Then the surgeon come along and see the x-ray film. what? she has a broken left leg. Why POP on the right leg? we all laugh till we" pensang..."the old lady would relate the story to the long house people, that if you have a broken left leg , the hospital will treat your right leg!
Last night...
someone keep calling... Dad ask ...whom is he calling... then I say.... it doesn't sound like Ah kee..... so you don't bother lah... He laugh and laugh....
Raining so heavy....
Last night it rain so heavy. I wait for the rain to stop so that I can go home .But the rain never stop till morning. At the end I ring dad to fetch.... remember I am using motorbike to work. But today I am using car .gtg
Thursday, October 30, 2008
G O K.......serial ..5
A hundred thoughts
Mood was spoiled by that gila lady.... Sometimes so good and sometimes so bad..just turn her face to her back can be a few versions.I just pray that she change herself the soonest.
Sometimes talk to you she got pains and aches here and there. we suggest that she should take some medication. ..don't want lah... what a difficult person! Let her be herself and suffer her own way.
sleepless night....
Keep thinking , feel so sorry for late mum and dad. Thinking have a few boys can help him or the Ngu kingdom can grow.But at the end of the day, they turn out so useless,helpless,lazy ,some not doing anything useful at all, egoistic.not listening to advice........ The hell lots of crazy behaviours.
I am telling Mee Sieng if we don't help Hie Chung, who then?.Her mum so high fie talking. having nuts in her mind. If only she can get a job ,at least she can help up the family. The only one we can hope for something.The others, more hopeless.We all pray that she can get the job....pray ,pray for her best undertakings.
work place....
went to another unit. a specialist talk to me, shock me.In our country. we have to follow people being lazy...then we are like the other species. Taking pay with little work. That is what we want. One day we will starve. we are getting poorer and poorer. that is why I always encourage you all, if got a chance,get out of here.
examination next week.....
DD is having her examination next week. worry about her a lot. The economy is hell bad. I don't know if the government will send her to oversea or not. If not then what to do? That is why if we don't have penny, we are difficult. How I wish all my children have the best of education. But I am trying my level best to achieve this.
transport.....
Lately I use motorbike to work .very happy actually. You know what, very easy no need to follow the queue. I just go in between the cars and I reach home fast. Dad is unhappy because he has to follow the queue, frust lah .....
no lateral thinking......
this slow worker of mine,ask everything at work. she cant think a bit out of her coconut shell. Common, don't stay inside your cocoon.....come out today. and tomorrow will be yours.we all must have a bit of lateral thinking.....
I,.....I......
You all know " I " is the least important word in our dictionary.Not everything I ,,I ,, do this ....and I... do that. we are the people...... team work.......
security......
I hate the security of our place. The children are playing in the hospital compound. Imagine that!If I tell them, they look at me as if I do something wrong. very sad country!
Politics.......
our country are getting more and more unstable. The people alive keep blaming the dead people of wrong doing. Hey ! it is easy to do that because the dead people cant open their mouth anymore! They cant argue with you. That is a good idea.Or else it is like Taiwan...... fighting.... and ..fighting. My goodness, what is 21st century! worse than barbarous.
Work hard......
only if you work hard and smart than you are somewhere. But also need opportunity. That is life!





