What a hack.....

We all go to Bolevard Hypermarket at around 1pm. When we reached there, they were quite a lot of people. I left the car at the door while dad and Diana drive to park our car. I went straight to the supermarket to get the grocery we need. After that , dad joined me while Diana went to the bookstore.We two collected nearly half the cart full. Then we left the supermarket to stroll the other part of Bolevard.We wanted to come back to pay the bill later so that we can be weaved off the car parking ticket. When we came back an hour later, we found out that so many things disappeared from our cart! The things that were missing were the easily rotten grocery---- eggs, chicken, leavy vegetables and etc.I was thinking ,may be dad pay part of the bill already. May be he didn't have enough money .I try to ring him.... no reply. He silent his hand phone while in the church in the morning till then. Diana say, may be some one just take the thing from our cart for convenience. I ask the worker, she says may be the management take away. She was relating yesterday story when some one didn't pay with the cart full of something. After that, my mood go to zero.We just pay whatever is in the cart and left.Diana was telling me that our car is at basement 2. When we reached there, we search for our car high and low. Then I call dad again to confirm where our car is.It was at basement one. OMG! how to go up? Dad has an idea. He said, we hand carry all the things and walk against the elevator. We did it! it is quite a task.We all have a good laugh.

happy Gawai......

Today is the last day of May. Tomorrow is Gawai. We have 2 days public Holidays...for Sarawak only. that is why many people are on the road again! That is to say, many lives will be endanger on the road. That is Malaysia! So many festive seasons, and many lives will be sacrifice on the roads.
We went to church this morning. Surprised me ! Uncle Ah Teng is going to church also . I never seen him in church yet!God bless him.

I want to let you all do one question...........1=5
2=25
3=125
4= 625
5=?
if you can give me the answer, then your Eq is more than 160. Try i t.

feel really sad...

I came to work early as usual. I go to the May bank ATM to send money to Natlie. As I was busy checking Nong 's bank no. come this lady , asking for Rm 2.00 from me. She said thing like --''give me 2 dollars for me to use bus to go home. My son scold me and not giving me money.''when I hear .. the word her son, I straight away say, scold back your son. I hate people treating their parents like that.

The other day, we heard the priest telling us story. There is this couple staying in Singapore. When their children were small, they get their parents to look after their children. one day , when their children are a bit bigger, they try to abandon their parents. They say that their children are big. They need a room to themselves. They have no room for the old forks. Pity the old forks, when they older, they are being chased away.

This morning, when we take over duty from the Nursing sister, there is this old man. He is not married. When he was sick the other day, the family send him to private hospital. They spent all the money there. Now left only Rm 57 in the bank. Now the family member say that they don't want him anymore. They want to abandon him in the hospital. What type of life.

The 1st born......

Angela was born........
It was 2/4/1979 when we got married. That time , I worked in Mukah District Hospital. I worked there from 1/8/1978 till 31/7/1979. Then I was transferred to Hospital Sarikei. Angela was born on 1/3/1980 in Sarikei Hospital. She was born --face to pubis---a birth mild presentation. Normally people were born face downwards.But she was born face facing upwards. In old people saying, if born like that, it is good life for the person. may be ,it is true. Why Angela has good life. GOK. May God bless her for ever and ever.
When I got pregnant Angela, life is a bit tough. I stay alone in a rented room at Hua Tai Garden.
Dad came as he liked. I don't met him much. That time, he only help to do business in Bintangor. His parents were not considerate to him. I remembered one day, when I cycled to work, i fall down from the bike. Luckily nothing happen to we two. When I got admitted to the hospital for delivery, then only he came. When we were discharged from hospital,my mother was with me carrying Angela back to Bintangor by express boat. when we reached Bintangor, the rain was so heavy that I was wet when we reached the shop where dad was staying. we stayed there over night. There, your grandma gave some old dirty used clothing for Angela to use. I didn't remember letting Angela using that old used clothing, cos I didn't liked that old used clothing.As far as I know, that was the only thing that your paternal grandma gave to you all !
I have my confinement in my parents place , the house that you all visited over the years.Thanked you mum and dad, I will never forgotten that in my life! may god bless you two in heaven!During the confinement, dad came to see us , may be 2 to 3 times. then after confinement, that time only 42 days. I went back to Sarikei hospital to work.Angela was brought up by my mum.Every week, when I am off duty, I went back home to see her. She was a cute little girl.
when she was 9 months old, I brought her to Sarikei to be looked after by Ah Luang sin. The family looked after her till she finished her kinder. Angela is well loved by that family.
SinSin loved Angela a lot. they always bathed Angel so cleaned and always bau wagi. I like that family a lot . They are very good people. Angel saw the 1st cartoon show there. Till today, she still love her cartoon shows. When she was 2 years old, she can split open the quatze seed with her few little teeth. now I seldom see angel taking quatze seeds. Why?
one day, in school, I didn't know what happen. Angel hurt herself. She was bleeding a lot from her mouth. her cloth were all full of blood. When I came back from work, sin sin told me. Until today, I am still quite blur what had happened.
Angel was a good girl. We get a school teacher to bring her to and from school. She never refused. Not like Nong. I couldn't put Nong down to the car!She hold to you so tight!
There was an unusual event happening to Angel. When she was , may be 4 plus years old. one day,she ran away from Sunday school. I was so worried that I nearly report to police.That time, we moved to new house at Eng Tai already. Tieng hai uncle stayed next to sin sin. I motorcycled BB to uncle house so that I can left BB there so that I could go to police station to report my lost girl.I was so shocked to see Angel at sin sin house.OMG! she walked so far from Methodist School to sin sin house. I don't know how she could do that till today!tell you all more stories next time.

happy birthday nong nong..........

1985.......house moving
In 1984 December, I was very busy doing my house loan thingy . That time when you want to buy a house, you have to do the processing yourselves. There is nobody to help you. We fill the forms our self. We ask around the previous people for advice.We take about 6 months for the approval of the housing loan from government.
The next year, the loan was approved. We moved in to the new house in May. The loan start paying in August. I loan the house for 23 years. I finished paying the loan from August 1985 till July 2008. Every month I pay RM 527.19. Imagine , I am poorer by RM500 per month for 23 years!
When we moved in to the new house, things were difficult. We don't have much money. Jia and BB were still small. At first, we asked our neighbour to take care of them when I am working. But things didn't work that way. After that ,we have maid on and off.
Nong was born..
1986, nong was born. She is a lucky girl. Our another neighbour---Mu Mu.....take care of Nong since one month old. That time, our confinement leave is only 42 days. Mu Mu was a nice lady. But she died of hepatic cancer.
Nong Nong stories.........
She was tiny when she was born. But I gave her good milk----enfenlax. She took little milk when she was small. She grow very slow. When she was 3 years old, she is still very light. She like to say that she is Micky Mouse. I used to bring her here and there on my motor bike. She sat in front of me with her 2 tiny legs in the motorbike basket.She love that so much. That time, we don't have a car yet. When we go to clinic for immunisation, we have to go together with See Mei mother. I carry the 2 little thing while See Mei 's mother is driving her very old car.
When Nong was born, See Mei come next then come Ita. Ita mother got lot of breast milk, Nong Nong also breast feed by her sometimes. I have very little breast milk. When I start work after confinement, milk diminished.
Nong has a good child hood. She was loved by many people. She was cute when small. she make little noise. but that time when her teeth came out, I really have a hard time. She has no teeth -------not even one, when she is 15 months old. Actually people start teething at 6 months old. She is different! I ask a dentist, why my girl has no teeth? He told me not to worry. Wait for 3months and see. So I waited for about 2 weeks. OMG! her teeth come out all at one go......8 of them together! She didn't sleep for whole week at night and so was I. I really had a hard time !
When she is 4 years old,I start sending her to pre school.I had another hard time. She refuse to use other people's car. That time ,me and dad are both working. So we need someone to bring her back from school earlier so that she can rest at Nanny's place. So after that incident, we have to stop her pre school.
it is time for her real kinder. She was sort of slow learner. People know how to do spelling, and not her!She always get one or two correct for may be 8- 10 words. The whole of her kin die was not doing well. Some of her report cards are not seen until today!
Primary one to may be 3, she is still not doing well. Her position in class is 10 -- 18. Mind you, tiger year has fewer students!
hey! starting primary 4, she is doing well. She get good scoring at school. Primary 6, she can scored 5A 1 B. Form 1 till 3, she can do very well also. She can scored 7A 1b.

WHAT A DAY..

attendant quarrel among attendant..

Yesterday one attendant from CTW approach me. She tell me she has a crash with another attendant from another unit of mine. I listen to her story . after analysing what she say, I hug her and she cried. Who is correct and who is wrong, I don't know. But I pretty know that if someone come to me , they need to be council ed and loved.

Doctor and doctor having conflict..

This lady doctor is a bit wield to me. I asked around their own colleague about her, but they

seems not to know much about her. The other day, when we have the first H1N1 suspect, she was the first contact . But before the patient was discharged, she come to our CTW to work. I was a bit worried. So I rang the infection physician for consultation. She keep telling the ward staff that I chased her out from the ward. I was quite innocent until the nurses from that area tell me . Then I hug her to make up for what she was thinking which is not true. Then she tell back the nurses that I apologised to her! OMG!

This morning , she complain to me that the cardiologist with her always leave her alone not documenting what he says. I tell her that, no matter what he is still your boss that she should respect him.

Surprised me, when I go down to cardiac clinic, that cardiologist complained to me about her saying rude words to him. OMG! what are all this nonsense! we all must work as a team. No more quarrels and conflicts. we all must work hand in hands.

Mother's day celebration

8/5/2009-- at 10 am ,I received a bouquette of flowers from my 4 daughters to mark mother's day. I am very happy about the whole thing. Before the flowers, I already received their present-- a wrist watch. Thank you all so much.

In the church on 9/5/2009, I also received a present-- a bath towel.

On the other hand, I feel very sad. In the past years, I used to go back home in Sg Sian, Bintangor-- when grandpa still alive, to cook lunch for the forks at home. After grandpa passed away, I always buy cake for grandma on mother's day. But this is the first year, the mother day is celebrated without my mum. Pa pa and ma ma, you all rest in peace.