life lately...

Datuk Sri Yao Ping Hua 's death
he has been my patient on and off since last year.
he is a nice man and he likes to talk and shares a lot of things with me
in September 2010, he was diagnosed as hepatoma.
he was very depressed that time
i talked to him just to ease him out
and it did
he started to smile as he share his story with me
i told him , if he smile , i don't see any sickness in him
he told me he has 2 missions to accomplish.
1. to finish writing his biography
2. to celebrate and take a family photo for his 70th wedding ceremony in 2 years time with all his grand and great grand children -- from all over the world !

as he talk , i can see that he s so happy waiting for the day to come. i feel so happy for him as well !
may be more than 30 days has passed.
he is readmitted !
he is so sick-- i couldn't believe it
i go near him and say-- Matron Ngu come to see you lo
his sound was very soft - i hardly can hear him !
he was with us for a week or so
he become so critically ill and the family decided to bring him home on Sunday at 8 pm
and he passed away on Monday at 340pm !
5 matrons with our Pengarah- dr Rahim went to pay our last respect to him
he looked so peaceful !
but his wife is so sad !
keep crying.
she tells me -- that she s very lucky that God had chosen him for her !

in life , we cannot be too calculative !
we must think of other people .
we must not bring hardship to other people.
we must be very caring and love others just like you love your parents
we must love our seedblings as if you love yourself
we not only love our husband or in laws
we must love others as well
we must not cause unhappiness to other people

life is short
life must be made enjoyable at all time