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Eldest sister of Johor Bahru ring me yesterday.She told me a lot of things-- at home and abroad.

Home news

Kerk and his girl friend get registered as husband and wife. 1st couple of his generation of the Ngu family forming a nuclear family from my dad side.This 2 has been together since lower 6. That is around 5 or 6 years back. This 2 gets along very well. Kerk is a nice boy since small.I still remembered--- that time when he was about a year or 2 . Every evening , he cried and cried until he had no more voice or sometimes cyanoced. He cried for many hours at a time and non stop for many months.His mother forever cursed and scolded non stop. If anybody who stayed with her ,knew how grumpy she is.That is her life. mum and me took turn to look after him. We took turn to "shake" him in the sarong.We brought him to see many doctors and took all sorts of medications. Walao.. it was such a task to take care of him! The doctors said he had abdominal colic. They said.. kids that age sometimes has this problem. I am wondering if it was true. Doctors that time not so smart.

When he was no more crying from the 'colic thing', he got asthma. wolao... whenever he goes, he has to bring the 'pubs ' along with him. He is well disciplined. he knew exactly what he has to do--- when to have pubs. When he was 10 years old, he got an accident from the bicycle. He knocked himself against the 'block' to the house car park before he dropped himself into the drain. From there he got ruptured spleen. He had total spleenectomy done. That is why he needs to have vaccines to protect him from pneumonia infection. He has no protection against pneumonia infection. Now that he grown up to a handsome man. God blessed him for every future undertakings.

ASD niece..

A--atrium

S--sepal

d--defect

This niece of mine-- had a ASD--- from birth. She got pregnant when she was in form 5-- same age as DD. On 26/1/2009( 1st day of CNY) give birth to her 2nd baby---BBA( birth before arrival to hospital). Now that the baby is jaundiced, admitted to hospital. The father-- our cousin-- make her mother pregnant when she was in form 4. That is why I keep telling people, don't do funny thing. God is very great. If you can bluff your parents, you can't lie to God. Her husband is not working. I don't know how they live their life.Eldest aunt helped them so much to raise fund for her heart operation when she was a baby. Her operation was done in Singapore. That time, they had to spend, say-- 30--40 sg $ for the operation.They raised around may be 80k. When she is 21 years of age, she can get out the money. If I will she, I want to help people also. But instead , she want to enjoy her different life. That is not what I want in life. That is her life.

4th uncle of mine.

He moved to Miri years back. But they are not having a good life. Their children are bad to them. I heard recently, they rotate among their 3 boy sibling to look after them. But ,mind you ,they are still very strong people. Why they have to be treated like that? God only knows. I don't want to be treated like that. The Chinese are the funny people. They said, must have boys in the family. So that next time when you grow old, your boys will look after you. Is it true? Why I see many boy siblings always squeeze their parents money and not looking after them? why.. why... why.. I see too many things in life. I know too many happenings in life.Mind you their son -in -low is a physician!

5th uncle of mine..

This uncle has many wives-- I heard lately, he had 3 .The youngest is a land dayak... has 2 girls already.I met him when mum passed away last July. I never contact him. May be he doesn't like to be disturbed.Her daughter-- was graduated from England. I heard that she gets married , not celebrating at all. They always like to boss so much. gtg